Event Rules and FAQs


  • You must be at least 21 years of age to attend.
  • Federal or state issued photo ID is required for entry.
  • Safety and consent are our first priorities. Please respect anyone who says ‘no’.
  • Advance registration is required.
  • Event and membership fees are non-refundable. If there are extenuating circumstances for missing an event, please let us know and we may be able to compensate you for another event.
  • We want all our patrons to dress their best! Formal dress, club wear, or lingerie (no shorts, ripped jeans, sandals, or tank tops.)  Dressing in theme is highly encouraged!
  • One of the tenants of living the lifestyle is open and honest communication. We do not host events for people lying to their spouse or partners.
  • We will keep your information confidential and not disclose it to any third parties. We expect the same from our members.
  • No devices that take photos or video recording will be allowed past check-in.
  • No drugs or illegal activity is allowed. Anyone caught violating this rule will be immediately removed from the event.

Additional Rules for On-Premises Events:

  • All alcohol must be checked in with the bartender at the beginning of the night.
  • We love people who love their kinks but we are not set-up for anything involving blood, urine, or fecal matter. Please respect that.
  • There is a 2 hour arrival window for check-ins. After that time no one will be allowed inside the event.


  • We do have an outdoor smoking area provided at most of the venues we use.
  • We will provide light snacks throughout the evening. Please do not bring your own food.
  • There will be music and a dance floor. Feel free to make requests!
  • Lockers are not provided. Please leave your valuables in your car, hotel room, or home.  We are not responsible for lost or stolen items.
  • Our on-premises events are BYOB. We will provide mixers (soda, juice, etc.) and a competent bartender.
  • If you’re traveling from out of town or need a place to recover at the end of the night we’ve blocked rooms at a nearby hotel. We are happy to make arrangements for you upon request.
  • The common areas of the premises may be recorded by video for security purposes. Playrooms and bathrooms are not monitored.
  • LGBTQ men and women are welcome!
  • You won’t need to bring any cash or credit cards with you unless you’d like to tip the bartender and entertainers.
  • Our members range in ages from 20s to 60s with most in their mid-30s to early 50s.